Asian Men Black Women | Married with Children | 01

if God did it before he could do it
again
people seem like they’re more on my side
when it comes to like like oh I’m
surprised that he married her when I
mean if you look at the flipside like
she married someone who like for myself
I’ve never had any experience with
babies toddlers children I don’t have
any younger siblings that’s also really
scary because like if you are a woman
you have already have four kids and
there’s just a new person who never been
a father before never have any
experience of children before right it’s
just like a lot of responsibility to
think that what that one person is what
I have to start do I’m actually like how
how are you gonna be able to be that but
what do you day so we have a children oh
let’s say this was two years ago what
would you have say two years ago I would
have never considered anyone with
children before well I just um
inconvenience also just lack of
experience with children I just didn’t
know how to fit that role because like I
mean I understand how to be a boyfriend
in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship
but to be a husband father and
everything else that comes along with
that I guess it was just above my head
for me to understand all that so I
didn’t also understand the blessings
that come with it too so
I guess just people in general are
wondering like why we even got married
or why I chose to marry some of the four
children a lot of the strength and the
foundation of our relationship stemmed
from seeking for God’s wisdom and answer
in this in this topic and it was the
first time in any of my relationships
that I felt a God presence in just
I guess in the everyday type of aspect I
mean I’ve been to church with like at
the time like like my girlfriend’s and
friends and people I was interested in
like I’ve gone to church but it was just
um you know like a once in a wild thing
and we never really spoke about God or
Christianity and a lot of cases we
avoided that calm conversation yeah so
it was the first time that I felt a
spiritual connection in that sense and
just having that foundation just
inspired me to understand marriage a lot
better just the research that we were
doing
help me understand marriage and what
marriage is all about
and so yeah I mean just on paper like
we’re having for kids divorce or being
ashamed or being a handful okay I’m not
against hold a PhD seems like um are
being a handful it was I mean all that
story how about a hand for your handful
to do it why but I’m not saying it in
like a bad way oh she’s just sassy she
likes to I mean well I mean what is a
hand fit me don’t you want a lot of a
person not a little bit of them look
what the whole person yeah yeah like I’m
saying it’s not a bad thing what I like
about our relationship versus like the
other ones like you’re saying the
spiritual aspect of it because our
conversations have been
a reminder of how to know continue
growing spiritually and look at us now
when during the church that’s crazy
cuz I never would have thought that like
I would join a church the first time I
was a member at a church was when I was
14 and I think I was on for like three
or four years whoa how do you stop
becoming a member of a church get up and
leave I guess do you have to cancel your
life next week Joe’s friend is getting
married one congratulations what I know
you didn’t watched it
I wonder um this friend is Korean I
wonder they’re going to have a
traditional Korean wedding or they’re
going to have an American what I was
with you why wouldn’t they have a
traditional or at least wear the dress I
never thought on the limits ever seen in
person I’ve seen one okay it looks like
right like a rainbow basically they’re
they’re wearing like a silk Rainbow Road
kind of thing
with the big bow
oh there’s one more thing now in
SIGGRAPH people really like I hope you
apologize to your husband there’s no
reason for this is just our relationship
that’s how we are I feel like when
you’re in a relationship with someone
only those two people are in a marriage
to someone only those two people can
really understand how they communicate
in their marriage like if we communicate
in one way which is works for us and you
know you can both understand internet
and that’s good if another couple has a
community and another way for them to be
about understand each other that’s good
we beat these devotions from The Purpose
Driven Life book and tumblr so I like
Joe is definitely a person who’s like
was it called introvert we’re both
introverts
we’re both introverts in different ways
yeah but also we’re both were neither of
us are shy yeah I mean I think for both
of us we can go to a social environment
and talk to a whole bunch of people but
no one really knows who we are at the
end of the day right yeah like we can
I think we’re just so objective about
ourselves not really very personal in
conversations sometimes that it’s hard
for people to even I mean they might
like us but they don’t make New York
yeah or that I give it I get that a lot
and like a lot of people say about you
like oh they’re mysterious or whatever
and people said about me too but um
either people don’t know us and either
they like us or they don’t like me
whatever well either they don’t like us
where they don’t get us right it’s
either in one another
yeah normal I’m not like a person who
likes to go and make friends of other
people that’s not really like I just
like my one cup of fries and that’s it
and just to stay in my not in my house
to stay amongst a group of friends and
amongst those myths of people I like
meeting other people while meeting new
people but I don’t like befriending them
that’s a problem and in this in this
little part of the Purpose Driven Life
it was talking about why you should be
around more people and actually a lot
least Christian your Christian believe
believers so it says in many religions
the people consider to be the most
spiritually mature and holy are those
who isolate themselves from others and
mountaintop monasteries unaffected by
contact with other people but this is a
gross misunderstanding spiritual
maturity is not a solitary individual
proceed you cannot grow to Christ like
mist and isolation
you must be amount of other people and
interact with them you need to be a part
of a church and community
why because true spiritual maturity is
all about learning to love like Jesus
and you can’t practice being like Jesus
without being in a relationship with
other people remember it’s all about
love loving God and loving
there’s this whole really got me
thinking about why I need to join a
church when we’re at home long people we
need to deal with is each other you know
learn to love each other and like I
think this is a good this like got me
convinced idea we need to be a part of
the church in the community we need to
interact with people so like when people
like say things that make Tempe or your
your anger that you can learn how to you
can practice how to be like kind in
those situations how to be patient in
those situations do you think yeah I
agree
so I put on the ball I mean what are you
what do you be I what do you think about
being like around more people like me
more Kyle like it’s an outwardly
expression we’re not supposed to
internalize all these things because I
mean Jesus was around he was walking
around everywhere he didn’t he wasn’t
just in a room just studying and reading
and praying just to himself and then he
just decides to walk out the door and
get crucified
I mean he was the whole New Testament is
basically of him just roaming around
walking around talking people
interacting with people it’s it’s about
yes it’s about him outwardly expressing
and interacting and communicating with
people so I mean just in that aspect
were to be more christ-like yeah
so people because so we got a guy with
more clubs we got to talk to more people
have more drinks if it has to drink more
while
we just need to share more like not just
talk to people but share what we are
learning or have learned and because I
think there are a lot of people or a lot
of believers who feel the same way they
feel like it’s somewhat awkward or it’s
just a little bit strange to talk about
your spiritual status I’m not exactly
sure why but I mean just this world has
made it an odd thing to talk about and
odd something to talk about
so I guess that’s the end of our little
sit-down chattin right with with the
camera
what do you gotta say for dodge time

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